Currently, each country is struggling to keep the traditional family in the form it was several years ago. Time takes its and very much of what the past generation has with great difficulty, irretrievably lost. In all countries, the influence of foreign cultures is observed, which also have an effect on family relationships.
The Vatican is at the moment the country in which traditions and customs are still alive, which nobody was going to cancel. To a large extent, the Catholic Church, which has great power in the country, exerts its influence on society.
The only thing that has changed in the family is that now it is very rare to meet large families. This is what is trying to revive the church today.
Despite the fact that the family in the Vatican is very anxious, early marriages are not popular. Even the Italian temperament in this case is not valid, because before a man marries a man must have financial stability and independence.
However, this does not mean that a secured man will marry a simple and not a rich woman. He will look for a suitable couple – a woman from a noble family, which will match his status.
Not so long ago in the Vatican families, women devoted themselves entirely to household chores and all the economy in the house they led. Working Italian was very rare. At the present time, on the contrary, in the family both spouses can work and a woman who occupies a rather prestigious position is not uncommon. Non-working Italians can be found except in provincial towns and villages.
A woman now in the Vatican has all the opportunities, on an equal footing with a man, to receive higher education, get a job and engage in public and political life. Even if a man earns enough and can fully support the whole family, a woman can still stay at work for her own fulfillment and pleasure.
A woman in a Vatican family has a very great influence on all other family members and even her own husband, to whom every woman finds a very right approach, thanks to her wisdom. For a man, it seems that all decisions in the house come from him, but in reality the woman rules everything.
Especially it is noticeable in more or less large families, when practically with any question they address only to the hostess of the house, and she decides the fate of her children.
Especially reverent mother’s attitude in the Vatican towards her sons and in order to enter the family, the future daughter-in-law must first earn the trust of the mother of her chosen one. If the girl does not approve of the mother, then there is no question of any further relationship.
However, if the acquaintance happened and the mother approved the choice of her son, then we can assume that the young girl found the most reliable friend and adviser in the person of her mother-in-law, because in the future the daughter-in-law can address her on any issue and even complain about her husband . Family affairs of the son will be decided in strict order and the daughter-in-law will be given good advice on how to improve the situation.
On the temperament of men in the Vatican, you can add legends, because any strong feeling can absorb a man completely and without a trace. If this is love, then it is so strong that it can sometimes even interfere, because the attacks of jealousy can lead to family conflicts.
Such cases in the Vatican are not rare, so women try to be more careful when dealing with the opposite sex, so as not to provoke the wrath of their spouse. However, this does not mean that such a state of affairs exists in every family.
A woman in the Vatican in the house is engaged entirely in the whole economy and the role of the child caregiver is assigned to her as well. However, men take in the upbringing of children no less than participation.The birth of a child in the Vatican is, first and foremost, a great joy for the father himself, who himself is willing to do so as to swaddle, bathe the child and clean up after him.
To see on the street a walking father with a child is not uncommon. They are very happy to devote all their free time to taking care of the baby and taking walks with him, even when the mother can be employed at work or can do household chores.
In the Vatican, all family members spend all their free time together and never rest separately. Every day the whole family gathers and goes for a walk, either to a restaurant or a cafe, or to go out into the countryside. A man in this case is always the initiator, it is he who always strives to give as much time as possible to his family and his children.
When children grow up, they start to learn, then the best time begins, so that all friends and co-workers learn about the achievements of children. Men in the Vatican always carry photos of their family and their children and always want to talk at work about what successes in school or sports his children have achieved.
Boys in the Vatican have more freedom and permissiveness in the family than girls. Sons are the favorites of mothers, because every mother believes that a woman is much easier to settle in life than a man. At whatever age a man is, for his mother he will always remain a small child.
Even after marrying, the son spends a lot of time in her mother’s house and she quite often can visit her son’s house in order to see whether her daughter-in-law lives well and meets her duties.
Love and respect in the Vatican for parents is in the first place and with elderly parents there is always one of the younger children in order to look after them. Sometimes the younger sons in the Vatican after the marriage stay in their mother’s house, in order to become a support for them in life. All family members always try to be as close as possible to each other and never lose kinship and maintain a relationship.