The first moments of pregnancy are associated with the delight of both parents that soon they will have a baby, how they will love him and how he will please them. However, when the first wave of feelings of joy passes, a woman begins to overcome very different feelings. She starts to think different thoughts in her head, and the woman starts to become withdrawn and nervous about different things.
A woman first of all begins to worry for the reason that she can no longer perform at home those functions that she used to do. She worries that pregnancy will make her clumsy and clumsy and she can not already do something at home on the au pair or as actively as she used to work.
The body of a woman during pregnancy can not be controlled and lives its own life, whereas before it could change the weight of its body and its shape at any time. In such moments, when it begins to seem that the body and stomach begins to disfigure you, you need to think about that there is another life inside of you. You should remember that a pregnant woman has always been and will be the most attractive exactly when she expects a child.
You should be proud of the fact that you have another life in you, that you are carrying your baby, and he is waiting for you no less than you are. You can already now communicate with him, talk and be sure that he hears you and recognizes the mother’s native voice. Let then he does not remember these moments, but during pregnancy, the mother and child are closest to each other.
The next point that worries all pregnant women is that for the entire period of pregnancy and the first time after the birth of a child, it practically flies out of public life and becomes immersed in their cares. At this time, it ceases to be a participant in public life and loses its social position.
A woman begins to fear that she will not be able to return to work later because, having lost so much time, she can no longer meet the needs of the employer as a good specialist. This also does not need to worry, because after pregnancy and childbirth, you can completely perceive the world around you, you can look at your work in a new way.
The birth of a child will have a special impact on women who work in a field where constant communication with people is necessary. After all, then she will be able to look at people’s problems differently and understand them much better, she will quickly come closer to people, because she will become more open to communication and contacts.
Naturally, every pregnant woman is afraid for the child. Sometimes a woman is afraid of doing unnecessary movements in fear of harming her child. The closer the child’s date of birth becomes, the more fear arises that a woman will not be able to correctly behave when a newborn is brought to her.
Or what to do with the baby, if he will cry, because he can not say what he wants, and the woman does not know what is required of her. In such cases, you just need to find yourself an occupation that will distract from unpleasant thoughts and constant anxiety.
You can do embroidery or knitting, you can start to prepare a dowry for your child and do it with your own hands. You can start shopping trips to get everything you need for your future baby. Many, of course, believe that buying things in advance for a child is a bad omen.
If you believe in such a sign, then find time and talk with your mother or already given birth to your girlfriend, ask what you need first of all for the baby, together with the husband make up the entire list of necessary things and give the husband an order so that he acquired all these things when the child is born.
In your fears and worries, constant thoughts about the future child, do not forget about your own husband, who is next to you.You may think that he does not take any part in your situation, that he is cold to you does not feel the same as you.
During pregnancy, a woman becomes irritable and can break into close people for various trifles. This is due to hormonal changes in the woman’s body, which adapts to the new position.
In addition to the feeling of cooling on the part of her husband, the woman also feels and fears that she no longer looks attractive to him, that his attitude towards her has changed. There may even be a strong resentment against your own husband. It must be remembered that for a man the pregnancy of the spouse is also very strong stress.
He is also overcome by various fears and doubts about whether he can be a good father, to behave correctly at birth. He also closes his thoughts every day. This problem must be solved jointly.
Of course, you can explain to your husband your own feelings because a new life is growing in you, but you understand, he can not understand it, but he will know that this is an amazing feeling and will respect you even more and relates to you with greater tenderness.
Instead of being annoyed at any occasion, it’s better to sit next to your husband and talk to him about what’s bothering you, what you do not like about his behavior. On the fear of the failed parents also need to talk together: you need to find out what each of you is afraid of.
First of all, you yourself must support your husband, because men are weaker than women when it comes to incomprehensible things for them. Men become like children because they do not know how to solve a problem they do not even understand.
You will see how much your relationship changes after you share, with each other your fears and feelings, and all the remaining time before the birth of a child you will always feel a strong male shoulder and love, and the caress of your husband.
The main thing is that the pregnancy will end with the birth of your baby, whom you will love, and all the adversities will go away, and all experiences and fears will be forgotten.