Kindergarten

Kindergarten

is a children’s preschool for children from three to seven years old. These institutions were created to help working parents, as well as to introduce children to society and prepare for school. In this regard, there are not a few myths that many parents worry about their children. Let’s try to figure out where the truth is, and where the myth is.

In our time, there is no need to use the services of kindergartens, because now everyone can hire a nanny for a child.

This is far from the case. Very few can afford such a “luxury” as a nanny for a baby, because this pleasure is not cheap. In addition, in the kindergarten the child learns to be friends with other children, because in this “kindergarten” age it is much easier to adapt to the environment than in school years.

никто No one looks after the child in the kindergarten, there he may be hungry, catch a cold, other children and even caregivers can beat him!

These assumptions are dictated to parents by their inner fear for their child, as they are used to controlling each step of the child. In the kindergarten, the toddler must do everything himself, thereby learning to be independent, including not giving himself offense. But this does not mean that there the children are left to themselves, the caregivers, as a rule, are obliged to ensure that nothing happens with the children.

Parents can develop their own baby.

No one argues that it is not forbidden to parents to teach the child to reading, writing, drawing, etc., there are plenty of literature for this now. However, if the parents are not specialists in the field of upbringing and development of the child, they will not be able to explain everything properly to the child. And with what (with whom) does the child compare his achievements, if he does not see and does not communicate with other children? The consequence of this can be the unwillingness of a kid to learn anything, his interest will disappear and disgust for learning will appear.

In the kindergarten, children develop better than at home.

One can argue here, because many factors play a role. All kindergartens are different, and that is why children are engaged in “from and to” somewhere, as they say, and somewhere a kindergarten is just a place where children expect their parents when they come home from work. And there are paid gardens, here really children are trained from morning till night, however, the services of such kindergartens to many parents can fly “in penny”. As a consequence, parents sometimes do not take children to kindergarten, preferring home education. But even here there is a minus, if at home the child is engaged on a case-by-case basis, it is unlikely that this will be a good foundation for schooling. Therefore, we need to look for the “golden mean”.

It’s very difficult to get into kindergarten now without blat.

Controversial statement. In each kindergarten there is a line of enrollment of children in the appropriate group. This is done so that the gardens are not “overloaded” by the children. The earlier parents put the baby in the queue, the more they have the chance to attach their child there.

Going to the kindergarten, the child will often get sick.

From the part it is so, but only from the part. The kid needs time to acclimatize, get used to the new environment. And all this acclimatization manifests itself in different ways, someone is constantly being naughty, someone is catching cold, and someone, on the contrary, is experiencing all this without much trouble.

Going to the kindergarten, the baby will get sick with all the “childhood” diseases.

The child will bear all the “childish” illnesses in any case, it will happen earlier in the kindergarten. By the way, in childhood these diseases are more easily transferred than in adulthood.

The child should be given to a kindergarten in 2.5-3 years.

Yes, this is the best age for a baby when he can already eat, dress, etc. on his own.At a later age, it will be very difficult to give a child to a kindergarten, as in this age period he will begin to understand what’s what, and therefore will not want to visit this institution for anything.

In a kindergarten a good child will not be taught!

If the child, coming from the kindergarten, suddenly uttered an obscene expression, this does not mean that he heard it there. However, do not forget that in our world, next to the good always goes bad, and therefore, sooner or later, the child will face the “bad” side of life, and this is normal. In this way the child will know the world. The most important thing is that this “bad” does not settle for a long time in the head of the baby, for this you just do not need to focus attention, for example, on the fact that he curses with mate, and try to do good in front of the baby.

“Free” kindergartens actually collect money all the time “for the needs of the kindergarten.”

It’s not a secret for anyone that you can not go far on public finance, and therefore kindergartens are forced to take parents from their parents to help them to provide normal conditions for children. As a rule, all money goes to the purchase of toys, educational materials, food for babies. In addition, kindergartens must report to their parents, where exactly and on what contributions have gone.

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