The Israeli family is considered the most calm and balanced family in the world, there is no place for rudeness, here nobody and never raise a voice to anyone. It is believed that in these families, any issues can be solved peacefully, only in this way it is possible to achieve equilibrium and ideal in the family.
The life of the Israeli family is based on respect, which it must also convey to its children. Parents should be ideal for their children, their responsibility is to convey all family and national traditions to their children. In addition, children need to instill the right character traits and for this you need to have certain skills and ability in education.
With regard to the relationship between men and women in the family, in the Israeli family, both spouses are equally important. Although a woman gives up the role of head of a family to a man – this does not mean that a man is something better or more important than a woman.
It is believed that everyone in this life has a role to play, and for the man, woman and everyone in the family to perform their specific functions. The reason that a woman in Israel transfers authority of authority in a family to a man is just a woman’s modesty, although the woman herself understands that in some things she is much superior to a man.
A wise Israeli woman is well aware that she can not fulfill all the duties of a man and can not do without him, the same opinion holds and the man, knowing that he is unable to perform all the work that is performed at home and au pair by a woman.
Every person is important in their place, and otherwise nothing will happen in this life. Many men also understand that a woman works much more and her duties are much harder, and no man can fulfill all these duties.
There should be no infringement of the rights of a woman in the Israeli family, she has the right to act, as she sees fit, but still must consult her spouse. Between the spouses in Israel, the purity of relations must be preserved, that is, one vivid example or rather even an old Israeli tradition that refers to the feminine principle.
At the moment when a woman begins menstruation, a woman is considered not clean and a man can not touch her. This period begins from the very first day of menstruation and until the day the woman cleanses. The time when the cycle of menstruation should start should be known to the woman and strictly follow this time.
After the menstrual cycle ends, the woman must count another seven days and go through the cleansing ceremony. Only after this, an Israeli man can touch his wife.
It is also believed that if a child is conceived on the days of the menstrual cycle or until the cleansing ceremony has been passed, he will have a very rude and impudent character, and a child who is conceived in clean days grows up as a fine and kind person.
The special attitude in the Israeli family to the upbringing of children. Like in any other family, Israeli parents also want only the very best for their children.
They want their children to grow up to be good and intelligent people, receive a decent education, get a job at a prestigious and highly paid job, so that their children will have real success in life and family affairs, and that they will be respected and respected everywhere. However, for Israeli parents this is not enough, all this is not enough for their children to grow up, as they want.
Children in the Israeli family are brought up in the love of their religion, and respectfully must apply to all the numerous and long-established national and religious traditions. Children should be sincere and with true love and tenderness not only to their parents and relatives, but also with the same sincere love must fulfill all religious customs and honor their religion.
True, in order to raise all this in children, parents themselves must strictly follow the customs and traditions of their religion and be an example for their children. To say that all Israelis ideally fulfill all the prescriptions in no way, because sooner or later each person deviates a little from his path.
However, the task is to strive for self-improvement and Israeli children should see everything to which parents aspire and take an example from them. The desire to correct their life mistakes teaches and children do not repeat the same mistakes that adults committed.
Do not be afraid that children see the mistakes of adults, it is very useful for them to know what in life should be avoided. In addition, you need to communicate very closely with your children in order to establish a very strong connection with them.
The most important features that parents bring up in Israel in their children are love, deep trust and fear. Love and trust are, of course, the most important positions on which you need to live, trust in the family is of great importance, as well as love for everyone around you and for your relatives and friends.
Why do you need to instill fear in children? After all, this feeling can not bring anything good. A child in Israel must be afraid of the consequences of his bad behavior, he must fear the punishment that will follow after he has committed a bad deed.
Although parents in Israel try not to punish their children, they sometimes need to be kept strictly, otherwise they will grow up simply spoiled and rude. Love in an Israeli family is necessary in the education, because the lack of love can push the child away from the parents.
If there is no trust in the family, this will also negatively affect the child’s character, and he will never trust anyone in his life. These feelings must also apply to religious traditions and customs.
All of the above suggests that the main thing in an Israeli family is still the involvement of children in religion and the carrying of this religion through their entire conscious life, in order to transfer all their knowledge to their children again after a certain time.