Hungary is a very cozy and friendly country, Hungarians cherish their cultural, historical and national traditions with special warmth. In Hungary, the customs and traditions of the past and the realities of modern Europe are mixed.
Of course, of course, Hungarians and family traditions are also honored. To marriage as before, and now are very responsible.
Moreover, people still prefer to live in a bachelor life in Hungary with bewilderment and incomprehension, and in many families the girl who has been sitting up in girlhood is considered almost a universal family grief.
Of course, today’s young people do not try to bind themselves as soon as possible by marriage, but as a whole they do not think their future without creating a strong family and giving birth to children.
For a long time in Hungary, survivals of the patriarchal way of the family were preserved. The man was considered the undisputed head of the family, insubordination to his will was unthinkable, respectively, the rights of women were severely violated. So, for example, in a number of cases, the wife could not even sit at the same table with her husband.
In modern Hungary, including at the legislative level, the equality of women and men is clearly fixed, in most cases couples do not experience any problems, respecting and supporting each other. Although, it should be noted that in some families the woman, of course, voluntarily, transfers the primacy to her husband, fully devoting herself to housekeeping and raising children.
It is impossible not to note decent and always respectable relations between young Hungarians before marriage. Hungarians have blood in their blood, aspects of good parenting. In addition, young people always pay respect and respect to the older generation, and the Hungarians have an exceptionally careful approach to their children.
As for such a Hungarian tradition, how to marry in a strictly defined social circle, or some local group, then this custom is not forgotten, probably only in small settlements. The church marriage in Hungary is almost an indestructible tradition, which at present remains relevant.
What the Hungarians really do not understand is a quiet wedding. They like to like noisy holidays, adore dancing, never forget their colorful national dresses.
Perhaps, in the clothes of every Hungarian family, you can find even a few national costumes. For example, a beautiful and interesting ritual of matchmaking is still often applicable in modern Hungary.
Even the speech that the matchmaker must make is carefully prepared, there are quotes, including the Bible, and poems, memories of older generations are recalled and used. After the match, an engagement follows.
In the past, the engagement in Hungary meant, first of all, that the families of the bride and groom finally agreed on such a side of the upcoming marriage as property marriage. And now some calculating Hungarians prefer to discuss all monetary issues before the wedding, drawing up a marriage contract is not uncommon.
The custom of “farewell” of future spouses with a bachelor life, which, of course, the friends and friends of the bride and groom are certainly traditional is still traditional. The Hungarian ritual of putting on a bride’s wedding attire, which is often preserved today, is also interesting – a bad sign is considered if the bride herself is dressed in a dress, so she does almost nothing, and her “girlfriends” are her friends.
The wedding ceremony itself is fun and noisy, and even Hungarians can dance, it seems endless. In general, famously dance couples, both before the wedding, and during the celebration, and after in any suitable case.
Traditional, so-called “monetary” dance of the bride: everyone who wants to dance with a barefooted bride is obliged to throw a coin in her shoes. It is curious that the Hungarians and the custom of blessing young parents by their parents, Hungarians also bring their wives into the house on their hands for the first time, and to shower the newlyweds with grain with a sign means to shower them with riches.
The wedding feast in Hungary is always striking in its abundance and variety of dishes, for good reason Hungary is famous for its wonderful cuisine and wine, familiar to every present gourmet.
Young families usually have children quickly. Hungarians protect the life of their families, most of them are very good housewives, while modern women often manage to combine the gorgeous housewives, loving and caring mothers, closely monitor the cleanliness of their homes, and, moreover, have time to work and even build a career.
Husbands also protect the family, protect and respect their second halves, doing everything to ensure that their spouses do not need anything. Thus, comfort and warmth always reign in the house of the Hungarian family, sonorous laughter is heard, and on weekends and holidays one can see a wonderful scene of a family dinner, followed by a stormy fun: loud music and fiery dances.
Even until recently, it was difficult to find a divorce in Hungary. The Hungarians made every effort to save the marriage. They understand how important this is an important aspect of their life, for the majority – the fundamental one.
Treason in Hungary is extremely rare: somehow it does not occur to them to put family happiness at stake. Treason is unacceptable and is considered a serious reason for divorce.
However, as it is unfortunate, in recent years, the state of affairs in this area has changed somewhat. The number of divorces is growing steadily. Although the very procedure of divorce is quite complicated, today it is possible to divorce, perhaps only through a court.
Sociologists say that the culprits, or rather, the initiators of the gap are women. Men, on the contrary, try to prevent such statistics and give a chance to their families to acquire happiness and harmony.
It would be nice for ladies to take an example from their respectable husbands. It would be great to recall and re-read the most important and main Hungarian custom: the creation, preservation and strengthening of the family.