People like to relax and adore sex. But just sexual intercourse for the money no one is already excite. It’s much nicer, when the object of lust will be seduced slowly and seductively under fascinating music. The impeccable body will beckon with its bends. People who dance, undressing, to music, called strippers.
This profession is mostly female, although recently men have found themselves in it. Girls usually look most well-groomed and sexy, wrapped around the pole and the visitor, they make the client forget about everything. Men take the brutal force and beauty of the body.
It’s no secret that in life most of the stronger sexes have a tummy or a bald spot. Some ladies lack the rough and primitive beauty that they can find in a stripper.
I must say that this prestigious profession does not count. People think that striptease is akin to prostitution, and representatives of the profession spend all their money on drinks and drugs. Meanwhile, to go out and dance to the demanding audience is not so easy. The work of stripteers is surrounded by numerous myths, which we will debunk.
Elite stripper earn a thousand dollars a night and live in luxury.
This myth is partly true. For many visitors spending on strippers is an excessive luxury. And this is not at all an account that needs to be paid. Today, dancers are forced to work more, going to work more often than ten years ago. In America, in well-established institutions, on average, strippers earn 150-400 dollars per night. It is not necessary to speak about some exact statistics here. Indeed, there are good nights when a dancer can earn a thousand. But this is, rather, an exception. It happens that for the change the girl leaves either with small change or without any earnings.
All strippers are stupid and uneducated.
There is an opinion that the girls near the pole could not find a better job, because they did not receive a decent education. Clients even mock at them, reproaching for the lack of a diploma. This myth seems logical, because it’s hard to imagine a stripper at a desk. If these people had a good education behind them, would they have chosen such a job? However, sometimes the dancers are much smarter than their customers, the evidence is accidentally slipping words. Just people are pleased to consider that they are dealing with brainless beauties who are engaged in serving important guests. And the fact that it may not be so at all – you do not want to think, not to lower your self-esteem.
Strippers are drug addicts and alcoholics.
Those people who have been working in this field for a long time say that strippers in this plan are not distinguished in any way. There are dancers who sit tight on the needle or sniff “powder.” Only life shows that such people in their clubs for a long time do not stay. They either quickly disappear, or they are simply fired for violating the regime, which is not surprising with this way of life. In clubs, alcohol can only indulge in petty servants who are not tied up in communication with the client. Strippers, after taking booze, it will be difficult to control the situation, which will prevent you from earning money. Who is interested in a drunken dancer who does not have a single gram of sexuality?
All strippers are concerned about nymphomaniacs.
This myth is not difficult to debunk. Usually, communication with the client does not go beyond what is allowed. Would a troubled nymphomaniac ever restrain himself?
Strippers suffer from the Electra complex.
This complex is similar to Oedipus, only in this case we are talking about women. It manifests itself in an unconscious attraction to his own father. Girls begin to compete with their own mothers for his attention. And the complex was named after the daughter of King Agamemnon, Electra.But why did such an opinion arise at all? Many dancers have quite good and trusting relations with their father, as well as representatives of other professions of show business. Children grow up in normal families, just at a certain moment choose for themselves such a path. Someone from the stripper probably suffers from the complex Electra, but there is definitely no connection with the profession.
Any stripper suffered sooner or later from sexual violence.
There are several well-known facts about the violence of women. It is known that in everyday life every third person suffers from harassment, one in four was subjected to violence before the age of 18 and each of six was raped as a result. But in this statistics nothing is said about the profession. Yes, and stripper in the world is not so much to affect the disappointing performance. It is likely that among the raped there are strippers, but it can also be said that they did not encounter such a problem. Official statistics on the representatives of this profession do not exist.
Strippers are dirty.
“Mud” profession for some reason tolerate and hygiene of the dancers themselves. In fact, in this environment cleanliness is given considerable attention. Girls spend a lot of time caring for themselves. They have to pull out hairs, perform hair removal with wax, use masks, creams, constantly wash and process those places on the body that an ordinary woman neglects. It is no coincidence that even a word combination appeared: “clean, like a vagina stripper.” And this is really true. People of this profession sell their bodies, not physically, but only in the form of a spectacle. To neglect the issue of hygiene is to leave the client with a displeased look and smell. So the purity of the body is an important part of the work.
It’s easy to work as a stripper.
Is it easy to go under the lights to the scene in a room where your body is constantly examined by curious eyes? At the same time, you need to take off your clothes and feel confident. Yes, and dance should be sexy and beautiful. Is it possible for many to do this? And this is only the beginning. It is worth taking into account drunken customers who lustfully touch and so strive to touch the stripper. Yes, and some try to assert themselves at her expense, letting off about her profession, appearance or mind offensive jokes. And in fact at times condemn such employment also friends, members of a family. To endure such a very difficult.
Stripers hate their lives and their work.
Among dancers, such people still meet, but most are quite calm about this. In this matter, strippers are no different from ordinary workers who perform the same work day after day. Someone has reconciled to this, and someone is basking in hatred, dreaming about a change of a way of life.
Strippers are simply incapable of doing more.
Who prevents these people from taking place in life? There are those who raise children, someone has a higher education. Most often in the profession come not because of some terrible life failures. Just dancers like their work, which allows you to earn well and save freedom. Strippers, thanks to their work, can pay for all their needs. And they, as it turns out, more than ordinary girls. At the same time, it remains to postpone the “black” day. There are strippers who have chosen such work only for the sake of greater communication with their children and for the sake of providing them with the best. Is this worthy of criticism? And for some, striptease is a temporary occupation, an opportunity to accumulate funds for further study or business.
The strippers can not have a permanent relationship.
Relationships are broken if the partner is not able to accept such work. But it is only necessary to understand that it does not go further than dancing, and to curb your jealousy, sense of ownership, as everything falls into place. Many strippers are married and quite happy in marriage.
Any stripper offers additional services.
Again, there are certainly those who want to earn extra with the help of certain services, sometimes intimate. In fact, in this profession there are few such. Sale of the body implies visual pleasure, and not the use of intimate parts for earnings. Do not think that strippers are prostitutes and pester them with appropriate suggestions. Most likely the woman refuses to continue communication with the client in his room and will call for protection in response to harassment.
In a striptease, money is earned from a pole.
Clubs are divided into stage and dance. In some, there are no poles at all, and girls earn with the help of their dances.
Everything that girls earn, it remains.
Few people know that strippers are paid to perform on stage. In a normal institution, the dancer signs a contract in which she undertakes to rent the club space. And the girls pay every night. Such a scheme is common in America, spreading from there throughout the world. In clubs, after all, there are other employees who need to pay: assistants, managers, DJs. Do not forget about taxes. As a result, the stripper will receive only 60-70% of his earnings.
Strippers are earned only on spoiled children of wealthy parents.
In the evenings, ordinary managers and clerks come to the clubs who look like girls dance. Many visitors already communicate with strippers, as with their good acquaintances. True, the girls try not to cross the border of friendship. Such a relationship seems logical – a man earns money all week long, and spends them on entertainment during the weekend, including striptease. And such clients like girls much more than spoiled “papa’s sons”, who do not appreciate the money and work of others.
The work of a stripper is humiliating.
Is not it a humiliation to work in commerce and get money, which is enough only to survive? Dancers can receive a salary for a day, which was previously produced for a whole month of work. These customers can feel humiliated when they have nothing to pay for their club adventures or will have to lie to his wife about where he spent the night. Can honest work be humiliating? And the bodies are bare and photomodels, but no one sees anything shameful in this.
Strippers are devoid of moral principles.
There are those who consider such dancers to be people without moral principles. Allegedly they are just looking for their gold mine. In fact, these are ordinary people who want to earn honest labor. The contract is not a form of selling the soul to the devil, just a person agrees on the conditions of work. What is immoral about this? It is a mistake to consider strippers as ready for all prostitutes – this does not involve work.
A stripper is easy to persuade to have sex for money.
This myth gave rise to pseudo-dancers and institutions, which under the sign of the strip bar provide very different services. High-level establishments have a special atmosphere, there is an unofficial etiquette. Girls do not only behave decently, they are under protection. How to treat strippers – as a high-class dancer or as a corrupt woman, it’s personal. Do not just require people of one profession to do something else.
Strippers do not incur additional expenses.
There is no place for semi-finished products in professional striptease. There is a lot of competition here. It has long been not enough just to expose the body. The biggest part of the artist’s expenses goes to costumes, shoes, stylish accessories. And the beauty of your own body also requires financial injections. Classes in the gym, swimming pool, solarium, hairdresser and cosmetologist services are not cheap. Strippers need to spend money on choreographers, musicians, directors. The set of such services depends on the level of striptease that the artist wants to show. Disconnected dance at the pole, even with beautiful, but ordinary underwear, is already unclaimed.But the interest to erotic shows, theaters, and striptease stripes awakens. Competition among performers is so high that quality performances are required to be put not only in the club, but also at private parties.
Male strippers can not do anything.
Not everyone can perceive dancing as a profession. Meanwhile, work is important not only morally, but also physically. A male stripper should have a pumped up body, which means regular trips to the gym. In male dances the emphasis is not on the perfect body, but on the professionalism of the performer and the ability to create a show from the performance. And this must be learned. It is no coincidence that in the West lessons of male striptease are more expensive than women’s. Stripteers themselves say that in this profession women only need to show their body – men “love” with their eyes. A man has to work his head, because a woman needs communication. Women do not need beautiful buttocks, they go to clubs, so that they are tempted and seduced, for this they will have to try.
Women for strippers are more supportive listeners.
In life, women are considered affectionate and gentle. For some reason it seems that in erotic performances, the dancer does not need anything to achieve their location. But the stripers themselves are distressed that everything has changed since women become independent and earn well. For them, men are just soulless sexual toys. And this situation is happening all over the world. There are stories about how aggressive ladies jump out onto the stage and literally stick to the dancers, almost raping them. And such stories are with any striptease, it is no accident that a profession is considered dangerous. Yes, and female jealousy can present surprises.
A male stripper provides intimate services.
Offer of intimacy for money is likely to offend the dancer. The main income of strippers is due to a small salary (and in some clubs there is no it), paying private dances, tips and consumables. In Spain, proud representatives of this profession generally claim that men do not sleep with women for money. But in America, some performers just earn money, dancing is just a form of advertising. But this is still an exception, which only confirms the rule.
Male stripper earns more girls of the same profession.
The fact that male strippers are less common means that they are exclusive, and therefore income. In fact, girls in this profession almost always earn more. For them, the main part of income is expensive private dances, and men often have to rely on tips, which directly depend on the income of clients. The guys have few private orders, and there are almost no regular customers. The secret lies in female psychology. It’s easier for girls to give money gradually than in one private dance. Yes, and men in our world earn more, therefore, and can spend more on their entertainment.
The profession of a stripper is ideal.
From the outside, it seems that there are no shortcomings and limitations in this work. Enthusiastic spectators circle around, the working day is short, and the fees are high. That’s only mentioned the heavy female character and low overall pay. It is worth mentioning about the constant restrictions, which the stripper exposes himself. He should not eat fatty, floury, you must forget about beer. The main part of the dishes is chicken and fish. It turns out that cellulite and fullness come to men no less quickly than to women. Yes, and in the male striptease a high competition and a long probationary period. Some people have to prove their charm, plasticity and texture for a whole month. For dancers of this genre the critical age comes in 30-35 years, so for realization of oneself in the profession it will be necessary to make a lot of efforts.