The question “How to meet a guy?” very relevant for many girls. Many girls think that the first step should be made by a man. And they are waiting for this step. They wait, instead of making it themselves. How to get acquainted with a young man?
First, familiarity must be carefully prepared. Now in a fashion healthy way of life, and centimeters on a waist all the same are important. Classes in the gym are a good choice. As for the centimeters at the waist, it is not necessary to reach the coveted 90-60-90, the frightening thinness ceased to be so fashionable.
Such women’s ordinances like make-up, manicure, pedicure will help you always be ready to get acquainted with a cute guy. Watch your appearance, study fashion trends. In any circumstances, you should look stylish.
Particular attention should be stopped on the hairstyle. The advertised shampoos were not as effective as it seemed on the TV screen? So this is the same advertising. Apply balms with glitter, use hair masks, and when you leave the house it will not hurt to splash your hair with your favorite perfume.
The terrible power is female beauty, this “tool” needs to be used one hundred percent. After you have brought yourself in shape and look stunning, it’s time to think about how to get acquainted and where. Where to go out? There, where a lot of men. Approaching the search for a sucheno is very global, you can even think about changing jobs. For example, if you get a job in a men’s clothing store or a computer store, you’ll always be surrounded by men.
Naturally, not in all aspects of positive official novels, do not overdo it. But thanks to the attention of men, your self-esteem will go up exactly. You will feel that you are desirable and attractive and thus attract more men’s views to yourself.
If you consider a job change to be something completely unreal, then at least choose a new route from home to work and from work to your home. Preference should be given to places where a “large” congestion of the male population is observed. In your spare time, go to a sports club, a disco, a restaurant. And can be enroll in driving courses?
As for discos, it’s not so difficult to get acquainted with a handsome guy, but finding a companion of your life there is a more difficult question. Although in life anything happens. If a young man proposing to get acquainted, at least in some way sympathizes with you, then in any case, do not refuse to meet him.
You may not find yourself romantically getting acquainted with public transport. And what if fate prepared a meeting for you in a minibus or a bus? Smile to the one who offers you to meet a young man. Finally, remember the famous film “Moscow does not believe in tears.” As they say, a fairy tale is a lie, but there is a hint in it.
Take the initiative yourself. Do not be shy about it. What can be the initiative? For example, in a perceptive glance or in a smile. In no case should you take a closed pose: cross your arms. This pose intuitively shows others that you are closed even for communication. But to wink the guy it is possible, after all the young man can wait for your signal, allowing to get acquainted with you.
Identify with such a question as: “Who do I want to meet?” Prince on a white horse? Understand that this is just a childhood dream. One person, most likely, will not be able to fit all those positive qualities that you would like to see in your chosen one. There are no ideal men. Illusions on the reverse should not be built. Look at yourself from the side. Or maybe you also have some set of shortcomings? Still, choose a man you think is suitable for you.
When you met a guy, there is another problem: during the dating how to behave. Simple psychological techniques can help you with this.Duplicate his gestures (but imperceptibly for the guy), use words from the lexicon of the young man. Listen carefully what he says, marvel at his merits. The latter is especially important, because a man must feel his importance and appear before a woman erudite and strong.
Touch the young man (do it as if by accident). See how he will react to the touch. It is at this point that a spark can emerge that will have a significant role in establishing further relationships. Exchange of telephones is the decisive result of the first meeting, but do not ask for the phone number itself. This initiative must come from a man.
Do not get hung up waiting for an acquaintance with the guy of your dreams, because, as often happens, you will meet at the moment when you least expect it. But you must be ready for this meeting.
Summing up, I want to warn you against the following mistakes:
When you meet, show your interest, but do not flirt with the guy from the very first minute.
Do not rush to start the conversation first. When meeting you do not need to look at the clock too often.
Do not rush. Haste is a very common mistake when meeting people. Appeal “Now or never!” not suitable for this case.
If you liked a young man, then why ignore his views?
Telling all about dating to your girlfriends does not always turn out well. About this in some way can find out and the guy: these gossip, he will regard as a rally.