Nobody wants to be poor. There are many ways to avoid this. Someone calls to work hard, but someone sees the reason in the worldview. In any case, we must start with ourselves, get rid of the very habits that lead people to poverty.
Those people who are attuned to poverty constantly get themselves hot. They believe that their destiny has deprived them of their wealth. Some regret that they were born a woman, ostensibly from a man initially more likely to succeed. Others blame their entire figure in everything, believing that the best places get thin. People regret that they do not have the same nationality, color, faith. There are those who see the cause of failure in that they are not married, while others, on the contrary, accuse everything of their ring on their finger or the status of a divorced one. Young believe that they are hampered by inexperience, and people in adulthood sigh about lost years. But how will people relate to those who feel sorry for themselves constantly and focus on the minor fact of their lives? Self-pity becomes a heavy anchor, which does not allow to develop and lead to poverty. Such an attitude toward one’s destiny will lead to a search for a poorly paid job and a miserable existence.
At first glance, economy, bordering on greed, is the best way to choose from poverty. In fact, the constant search for discount goods and stores with sales, the reluctance to pay for the education of children, the desire to get their employees to work more for less money – all this indicates that the habit of being poor has already taken shape. The desire to save everything is not a wise sign, but a testament to the fact that you have a clear discrepancy between costs and incomes. As a result, the solution to this problem is chosen the simplest and the most incorrect. If a person is programmed for wealth, he will be ready to pay the true price for things, services, labor of subordinates. Accordingly, he expects the same from others.
To engage in unloved work.
Lesson is unloved. Some are frantic because no one is helping them, others are nervous because their work is not capable of solving financial problems. We hate, rave, experience, despise … How many negative feelings about everyday work. This leads to failure and poverty. The secret to success is simple – we must deal not with what someone needs, but with what will give real satisfaction. Only then it will be possible to talk about some success. Favorite work will give an incentive to develop and create.
Evaluation of success with money.
Poor people develop a stereotype that happiness is possible with a certain amount of money. The account in the bank will give an opportunity to dress well, buy luxury accommodation, start traveling. And all this regardless of work and family. In practice, it turns out that happiness with money alone does not come. For a successful person, evaluating his position is much more important for a mother than for cash bills. And what exactly – everyone decides for himself. It is not for nothing that rich people begin to engage in charity, for them the happiness is not to save money, but to be able to share them with those who need it.
Spend more than you can afford.
Today there are many opportunities to spend more than there is available. For this purpose, credit cards have been devised, and bank employees will help to borrow money. However, getting into a debt hole is fraught. Anyone who wants to become successful must understand the difference between the right loan for the development of their business and a heavy burden in the form of a loan for a car or a country house.
Getting instant benefits.
Only poor people wish to receive everything at once and to the maximum.For them, it is difficult to understand that even if you have a job with a low salary for a solid job, you can start to receive a lot more in a few years than now, but in a dubious one-day company. So what is more important in the long term? Likewise, students predisposed to failure believe that they do not need studies, because you can start earning money right at this time.
The property of a poor and unfortunate person is to constantly whine and complain. Everything around prevents realization – corruption, rudeness, crime, discrimination. How can a normal person get through in such conditions? The potential loser will agree with this. Treatment of whining is – creativity. It is necessary to find unique opportunities to combat the vices of the external environment, to emerge victorious from any situation, even starting out initially unprofitable.
Matching yourself with others.
Losers constantly compare themselves with others. As a result, there are certainly minor traits, better than competitors. Someone is better at learning, someone bought a new car, and someone more fans. As a result, people are obsessed with unnecessary struggle, they allow the outside world to seize the internal. Let’s recollect Ellochka the Lunatic and its struggle with millionaire Vanderbildihoy. In the correspondence fight, the Soviet woman surpassed the overseas rival, but can it be called successful? Ellochka lives this competition, she has a limited horizons, stuff and a desperate husband.
Evaluation of wealth in money.
Really rich people not only broke the connection between happiness and money, which we already mentioned, but also changed the attitude towards wealth. It is valued not by a bank account, but by the ability to raise funds, create capital from scratch, create a new direction of entrepreneurship. Then and tax, checks, missing credit cards will not be terrible. Really a rich man is successful not at the expense of the thickness of the wallet and the number of zeros on the bank account.
Separating yourself from your family.
The most classic losers are among those who are distanced from their own family. Reasons can be very different – resentment for lack of support in difficult times, unwillingness to borrow money, different views. People do not understand that the family is an important source of internal support. It is here that you can draw strength when they are lost in the battles for success, when nothing else is left behind. Love of relatives will allow you to rise from your knees, to revive hope. Family is a great thing, but do not deny yourself the opportunity to understand this.