For us to see a small family – this is the usual thing. When in a family, one child is absolutely normal. Despite the fact that modern young people have practically unlimited freedom, first of all, she thinks about at least a little to live for her pleasure before having a family and besides that many people think first of creating a normal financial base for well-being in family.
Hence the lower birth rate and late marriages. However, the percentage of divorces is increasing, and all this, because people are dissatisfied not only in family relationships, but in life in the full sense of the word.
The percentage of divorces and single mothers in Ireland is quite high and yet it is the most prosperous country in which every person can have everything that he needs and in which one can build simply ideal relations between spouses and create a united and strong family.
In Ireland, most people get married very late, not because they want to gain independence first, but simply because they do not want to take responsibility for the family and raising children.
The results of early marriages are single mothers, who in Ireland are the most. A huge number of also women whose spouses go abroad to work and for a long time can be away from home.
A son in Ireland will never bring his bride or even his wife into the house of his mother, because then there will be two mistresses in the family, and the mother will no longer remain the sole authority, leading the household.
In Ireland, young people can meet for several years without registering their relationship, and when enough money is collected, in order to purchase a separate home, then it will be already possible to talk about marriage.
No man will live with his parents and his wife in the same house. A new family should live separately from their parents and have their own housing and their own economy. If you can not save up for housing, then you can buy housing in installments and this is the case for many young Irish families, just not to stay under the same roof with their parents.
Relations between spouses and between relatives are always friendly and very strong. Even if there are problems, quarrels and disagreements that always accompany any family relationship, strong family ties will never be broken. Children will never leave their parents in trouble and always each of the family members will provide help and support to others if necessary.
However, despite such strong kinship feelings, grandparents in Ireland are categorically against the upbringing of their grandchildren. It is believed that only parents should be educated, because otherwise children can absorb the rules of the other family, its way of life and relations in the family.
In the case of the Irish family, it turns out that only mothers are engaged in upbringing, because fathers will certainly find an excuse to avoid their duties and do their best not to go for walks with the child or to read him a book, not to play with him and so on.
On the streets of Ireland with strollers you can see only mothers who can gather by companies, so that it is not so boring. In rare cases, of course, one can see beginning fathers who make short walks with strollers, but this happens very rarely.
Working women have to either invite a nanny or in other ways to get out of the situation when there is no one to leave the child with. Here it can be noted that in Ireland there is some injustice towards mothers who take full responsibility for raising children. Fathers can participate in the upbringing only after the first years of the child’s life.
Constitutional rights are equally shared by both parents, who are equally responsible for the upbringing of children. However, in fact, only the father has real rights, because only the father can decide where the child will live, where he can go to study.
Only the father can decide on the treatment of the child and consent to a complex operation. In addition, the father can calmly leave his family, go to another country, take his children from his mother, and when he returns again, he can restore all his rights.
How to be in this case a mother who gives most of her time to the upbringing of her children and supports them in every possible way. Just reconcile with this provision, because to date, no changes to the constitution to make is not planned. However, that’s not all.
A woman in Ireland does not have any rights to financial savings, which are common or even her own. While she is married, all financial issues remain for the man. A woman in Ireland can only rely on the funds that a spouse can allocate for her to run an economy and dress children.
Even if all the savings that the family has are earned by the woman and the man has nothing to do with them, the wife can not use this money without the husband’s permission to solve her problems.
If a large purchase is planned, which has to be bought on credit or in installments, then in this case the word of the woman does not mean anything. If there is no husband’s consent, there can be no question of any purchase.
This suggests some infringement of Irish women, which limits not only her freedom, but also puts her on several levels below the man, even if the spouse takes a higher position in society than her husband and receives a large salary.
But the children in Ireland thought very well. Such level of the educational system can not be provided by any country and most of the funds for education are allocated to those children who live in incomplete families with the father or with the mother.